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Embracing Failure and Self-Compassion


Life is an extraordinary journey, filled with moments of triumph and moments of defeat. Along my path as the founder of Que Herba, I have encountered failure—those stumbling blocks that test my resilience and determination. However, I have come to realise that it is through these moments of adversity that true success is born. In this blog post, I will share with you my personal journey, intertwining the power of failure and self-compassion. Let my story, along with the inspiring journeys of well-known figures, serve as a reminder that failure is not an endpoint but rather a stepping stone on the path to success.

Embracing Failure and Progress:

  1. As the founder of Que Herba, I have experienced my fair share of setbacks and moments of doubt. There were times when I questioned whether I was on the right path, comparing myself to others and feeling as if I fell short. However, I have learned to shift my perspective and embrace failure as a catalyst for growth and development. It is in the face of failure that I have discovered my strengths, identified my weaknesses, and pushed the boundaries of my abilities. Each setback has forced me to reassess, learn from my mistakes, and evolve into a better version of myself. I have come to understand that success is not a predetermined destination but rather a personal and unique journey.

The Power of Self-Compassion and Kindness:

  1. In those moments of self-doubt and uncertainty, I have realised the importance of extending grace and kindness to myself. The weight of failure can be overwhelming, casting doubt on my worth and potential. It is easy to compare myself to others and wonder why my journey has been filled with more obstacles. However, I have learned that behind every triumph lies a story of hidden battles and unseen struggles. Comparisons are a distorted lens through which we view ourselves. Instead, I choose to celebrate the uniqueness of my own journey, acknowledging the courage it takes to persevere despite setbacks. Embracing self-compassion has become a nurturing force that allows me to heal, learn, and grow.

Inspiring Stories of Triumph:

  1. Drawing inspiration from the journeys of well-known Black figures who have faced failure and emerged stronger, I find solace in their stories:

  • Madame C.J. Walker: She faced numerous setbacks and failures while building her hair care business empire. Despite these challenges, she persevered, becoming the first female self-made millionaire in America. Walker's story reminds me that failure is not an endpoint but rather an essential part of the journey towards success.

  • Maya Angelou: Overcoming a tumultuous past, Angelou faced countless rejections as a writer. Yet, she refused to give up on her passion for storytelling. Eventually, her powerful words and unwavering resilience made her one of the most celebrated poets and authors of our time. Angelou's story teaches me that success often lies just beyond the brink of failure.

  • Mae Jemison: Despite facing numerous challenges and setbacks, Mae Jemison became the first African-American woman to travel into space. Her journey was marked by determination, perseverance, and a refusal to let failure define her. Jemison's story serves as a powerful reminder that with resilience and unwavering belief in oneself, even the stars are within reach.


Embracing failure and practising self-compassion have guided my journey as the founder of Que Herba. I have encountered numerous failures and setbacks, questioned my path, and compared myself to others. However, I have come to understand that success is not a linear path but a tapestry woven with threads of resilience and self-kindness. I embrace my unique journey, recognising that as long as I progress and remain determined, I am exactly where I need to be. I extend myself the grace and kindness needed to overcome challenges, just as remarkable figures like Madame C.J. Walker, Maya Angelou, and Mae Jemison have done. Let their stories inspire us to face failure head-on and embrace the transformative power it holds on the path to extraordinary success.

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